Open & Engaged State Check-In
One of the main aims of our work together is building psychological flexibility — the ability to stay open to hard feelings and keep moving toward what matters, even when things are difficult. To improve it, we first need an honest read on where things are right now.
These four questions ask about the past 7 days, each answered from 0 (not at all) to 10 (very much). There are no good or bad answers — the only goal is honesty, so we have a real starting point and can watch it shift over time.
Based on the Open and Engaged State Questionnaire (OESQ), Benoy, Knitter, Knellwolf, Doering, Klotsche & Gloster (2019), Journal of Contextual Behavioral Science. Wording adapted for this worksheet.Answer each from 0 (not at all) to 10 (very much), thinking about the last 7 days.
On the OESQ, question 3 is reverse-scored when calculating the total.
Optional. Anything happening in life right now that might be shaping these numbers — helpful context for a dip or a lift later.
Each dot is a check-in. A downward trend means growing psychological flexibility. Tap a dot to see that week's note.
Opens your mail app with a private link that reloads your whole history — every check-in, note, and the graph. Nothing is stored on any server; the link is the record, so keep it somewhere safe.